Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Currently {July 2015}

How is it JULY?? Where did June go? Seriously. My mom told me once when I was younger that the days/years would just fly by the older that I got. I thought she was crazy....but it's so true! Of course, if you really consider how our entire lives are just a blink in the universe, it also puts things into perspective.

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Listening: The youngest is bashing monsters (or creepers or whatever they are called) in Minecraft and I keep hearing them screech as they die. (Nice, right? lol)

Loving: I AM loving being on summer break. No worries, no cares, just being. It's amazing.

Thinking: You know...it's now July. That means I'd like some summer weather (you listening Mother Nature?). We've had a few hot days here in June but not much. Almost every weekend this summer so far as been cold and/or rainy. We want to go to the beach already! So warm up, would ya? :)

Wanting: My teaching partner in 3rd grade quit last week. She is due with her first baby in October and I long suspected that she would not come back. Due to the awful transition I had this past year, I really want my district to hire my former student teacher into that job....her and I would kick 3rd grade's butt together. I need someone I can teach with who isn't going to leave me hanging.

Needing: My new grad class started this week and I've got some homework I need to finish up if I want to be able to enjoy my holiday weekend! 

All Star: People always come to me with their problems or issues, usually just to vent, not because they want me to fix it. I just listen and let them get it out because we all need to do that sometimes. If they want my advice, I give it but usually I just listen and affirm their feelings. It's amazing how far that takes you in life. 

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

How NOT to encourage readers

I've spent quite a bit of time since my school year ended reading for pleasure. I have always been a reader. My mother and my maternal grandfather have always loved books as well. My grandpa died when I was 19 years old and I remember when he had passed and we were tasked with helping my grandma clean out grandpa's version of a man cave. It was full of books!

When I was a kid, if I was really bad, my parents didn't ground me from the television or video games, the grounded me from books (I know, I know). That is how deep my love of the written word is. I love to read. It saddens me every year how many students I have (often boys but not exclusively) who just do not like to read for whatever reason.

Over the years I have used many methods in my literacy classroom. As I move to 3rd grade, knowing how vital 3rd grade reading scores are in determining the future success of the students, I have been doing a lot of research on my own on how best to modify my literacy teaching. With National Board Certification in Literacy, I certainly have a lot of knowledge and experience to draw from....but sometimes that goes out the window once children are actually in front of you. Every child is different and has different needs.

I have found over the five years I have taught at my current school that choice is magic for my kids. I'm in a low-income inner city school; for a lot of our kids the tough love approach is the only one that works because they need the absolute consistency of high expectations. I will never forget the guilt that permeated my class this year when I was absent and the students were horrible. I did not yell and scream at them (though I kind of wanted to!), I just calmly told them how disappointed I was that they would treat a guest in our school so poorly. They knew they had disappointed me and that was worse than me yelling. They were very different people for the few days following that because they knew how disappointed I was. Expectations make a big difference. So do those choices. It is its own brand of magic.

One area I have insisted my students have a lot of choice in is the things they read for Silent Reading. I have a huge classroom library--probably the biggest in my school (although one of my 5th grade colleagues may have me beat). I have about 900 books of my own plus the books that I have available from my school. I am always buying books for my students. The wide selection of books is vital to helping students begin to love reading and I am certain that is why I usually see huge gains in my reading scores each year.

We use MAP testing at our school and it provides each student with a Lexile range.  While I do expect that my students read on their level when reading independently so they can practice their strategies in a "just right book", I do also allow them to select one book in their book box that is any book they want, regardless of its level. This may mean a child who is at a 300 level will pick up the first Harry Potter book or a Percy Jackson book. They relish that one "off level" choice. They also know that if they aren't successful with it, they can try again with another off level book. This piques their interest and often pushes them to read better because they want to read harder and more interesting books.

Which brings me to my rant and the point of this post. The Littles are now 12 and 13 (yikes....how did that happen??). They both have late year birthdays (November and December). Middle Child is dyslexic so getting her to read is a tough task. She is going into 8th grade but reads on a late 4th grade level. Unfortunately there aren't many books at a 4th grade level that capture her interest anymore. My 12 year old is going into 7th grade but also has a lower reading level. I suspect she is just not a good test taker because I know she can read and comprehend books at a higher level than where she is testing at school (also late 4th grade). This girl also loves to write creatively and rarely have I seen a child who likes to write but doesn't like to read.

I have the entire Harry Potter series and most of the Percy Jackson series in my library. I am a die hard Potter fan having read all of the books multiple times (even sending the kids to my mom's for the night when Deathly Hallows came out so I could read it uninterrupted and I did...in about 7 hours). I had not read any of the Percy books and in talks with my students this year figured I'd better.

I watched The Lightning Thief with the Littles so I knew what it was about. I told Middle Child that she must be a demigod  because she's dyslexic just like Percy. I asked both girls if they had ever read it before and Middle Child said no because it wasn't her kind of book (she loves Hugh Jackman and is obsessed with all things Wolverine, including comics). The Youngest said no because my teacher won't let me because it's not on my level.

Friends, I may well have seen red at that declaration. I was SO livid. Yes, I do entirely understand and appreciate the "just right book". However I would NEVER  tell a child they couldn't read a book because it wasn't on their level! (Sidenote: I actually do say that to kiddos when it comes to library books from the school library since they have them for such a limited time but if the child really is interested in a particular library book and I don't have a copy of it, I'll either make an exception or I'll check it out myself and let the child read it since I can keep it longer. I don't just say "it's not on your level too bad for you!") Way to kill their interest in reading!

So this just makes me absolutely more adamant that I will not stifle children's curiosity and what they WANT to read (unless it is obviously inappropriate--I wouldn't let a 3rd grader read The Hunger Games for example because the content is too much for that age).

Provide boundaries but make them reasonable. Don't tell kids they can't read a book just because it's not "on their level"! Let them try. Chances are, they will rise to it and work to understand because they are invested in the content.

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Erin Condren Teacher Planner Hack





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Friday, June 19, 2015

Five for Friday {June 19}


Happy Friday! Don't yell at me but I seriously had to check my phone to see what the date was...because I had no idea! :D

 I started making long-range plans for next year. I haven't had to do this in awhile because I have had 4th grade so much and know it well. With the switch to 3rd, I don't know the curriculum that well. Fortunately we have curriculum maps and whatnot so I was able to begin a general outline. This is the first four weeks of school. Of course this is subject to change. (I got this template and idea here.)

I have spent way more time than I care to admit playing on Sims 3. It's been an incredibly s-l-o-w week in my graduate class so why not?? :)
I wrote this incredibly long, incredibly important Connection Paper. It's so darn important that if you don't pass it, you don't move on in the doctoral program. No pressure or anything!! I turned mine in two days early and am d-y-i-n-g to know my score. Seriously, I'm an impatient person by nature...this is driving me batty!

I did some work in my Erin Condren Teacher Planner this week!

 Each month of the calendar has this notes pages before the calendar cover page...and I split each page (except August) into sections with Washi Tape. Top left says "Pins", top right says "Projects" and a spot for monthly reflections on the bottom. I saw the reflections part on a video and thought it was a good idea.
I stole this hack from Stephanie at 3rdGradeThoughts to use different colored Washi tape to mark off your different grading periods. I went through my whole book and did this for all four marking periods :) (Yes, a little covers the "W" in Wednesday on this page but whatever...) 
Plus, seriously how fabulous are those Washi tapes??? Unfortunately you can't purchase them because I got them at the Thirty-One Conference last July and they aren't available to the public. Bummer because they are purple and fabulous!
Finally, I created a GoFundMe to help me get to two very fabulous out-of-state conferences this year. The Husband is balking at the cost (due to flights and hotels) but seriously these conferences will be ah-mazing and I want to go. (Definitely going to the Teacher Powered Schools one, no matter what!). I posted about them on my Twitter account and have had 6 different fundraising groups follow me and offer to get me the funds I need....how cool is that? Whether or not it works is another story but still. :)

Tuesday, June 16, 2015

Summer Fun

My goodness, have I mentioned how much I love summer?! I'm not even going anywhere really but I'm just enjoying being. It's awesome.

Back at the end of April I told The Husband he had to plan a date for us all on his own. He is amazing but not very creative in coming up with stuff to do. We planned our date for May 1 but that's the day I had my car accident and we spent our date in the ER. Needless to say, I wasn't very happy!

With the therapies I had to go through to get "back to normal" and the crazy end of the school year, our date was postponed for a long time. We finally went on Saturday. (Good timing because last Wednesday marked 15 years since we met and began dating -- yeah we began dating the same day we met. We move fast!)

We had a blast. The Littles (who aren't really little anymore) went to stay with my niece and my mom and The Oldest does her own thing these days. We had dinner and went to the pier. It was amazing and relaxing. I need someone to donate a beach house to me....for real! I am so relaxed just smelling the water.

June 13, 2015

He is my most favorite person in the world (besides my kids obviously). He just understands me and my need to change the world, even when the world resists me. Probably why we started dating the day we met and got married 6 months and 18 days after we met! When you know, you know :)

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

How Summer is Done

Oh my gracious, I L-O-V-E summer! Especially THIS summer since it was a long time coming. It's only been three days and I am already having the time of my life. Yay summer!

Middle Child, as you well know if you have read this blog for any length of time, is the kid who got it all: dyslexia, auditory processing disorder, Asperger's, IBS, depression. Yeah...not a laugh a minute AND she is the middle child which is bad enough, right?? In March we found a youth group for teens who are on the spectrum called Puzzle Partners. This group has been a life saver to help her better socialize with other teens who are just like her and are not associated with her school at all. Every other week there is an activity or outing and it's pretty fun. Sometimes it's just a game night where they get together and play but other times it's an event: movie/mall night, trampoline park, etc.

Well this week we met on Monday (usually it is Tuesday) for a baseball game. Since it's a big event, the whole family could go and we did (except The Oldest because she has her own car now and thus avoids us like the plague lol). The funniest part of this outing was that I ran into the PE teacher from my school there and he ended up being 3 rows below us at the game. How funny!

We had a great time at the game even though our team lost and one of the organizers gave all the kids in our group a ball that was used in the game.

The Youngest, Middle Child and Me

I even got the Mister to agree to a selfie (let's agree to ignore my crazy colored hair, ok? lol)
15 years ago today this handsome man came into my life ♥

Speaking of that crazy hair....it was SO not working for me. I am a blond naturally but have had my hair dark for the last 3 years and it was red before that. I'm sick of the upkeep though (coloring and recoloring) so it was growing out and it looked like that....not flattering or fun. So I had to fix that too. To make the transition easier on my hair, we did highlights to ease me back to my blond status and it's so cute and fun and summery!

Fun summer hair! And my eyes look SO blue!
(Ignore the snarky grin on my face haha)

My stress level has pretty much become non-existent since I walked out the door of school on Friday afternoon. There are some big transitions possibly coming up in our household this summer but I am refusing to stress on them. I had enough stress on a daily basis all year -- I refuse to be stressed now. God will take care of us, He always has. But just in case, say a quick prayer that things don't get too crazy, would you?

I am reading like a fiend this summer too...I usually read quite a bit during the school year also but as a doctoral candidate who is just about to finish Phase 1 (whoa!), my reading time during the year is usually reserved for class readings. Thus, I have some catching up to do!

I have already read Wonder (loved it!) and am now reading The Lightning Thief (I know, I am so behind, right?). I have a hold on another ebook through the library too. It's YA fiction. (You know, I'm gonna be 37 this summer -- YIKES! -- but I love children's and YA literature almost more than I like adult fiction....)

Of course there are some teacher books on the agenda too. I need to reread Whole Brain Teaching and Number Sense Routines (especially important since I'm going down to 3rd for the first time) and the updated Daily Five. I'm sure I will pick up a bunch of other books along the way too. I have so many in my queue in my Kindle it's not funny.

Happy lazy summer days everyone!

Sunday, June 7, 2015

Yay Summer!

Woo hoo! Officially on summer vacation. Yes, I did do the creepiest of happy dances outside of school on Friday when we dismissed students. I heard a couple of my kids say, "well, she did say she was gonna..." while shaking their heads and walking away. Haha!

I am SO thrilled to be on vacation now! Left school on Friday after some quick goodbye and hugs, packed a bag at home and hightailed it to the happiest place on Earth -- my cabin. We have some new neighbors who are...interesting. And an old neighbor who got a new dog that they just leave outside to bark and bark. Rude. Alas, I will not let them ruin my happy place. No way, Jose.

I read a whole book yesterday. For fun! Because I could! And I revised and resubmitted my big comprehensive paper for my doctoral program this morning. Productivity with a mix of lazy relaxation? Yes, please!

Believe it for not, my mind IS thinking about next year already. I have tons of pins to sort through and new TPT items to purchase for my new class. As I browse and find ideas, I am adding them to my boards on Pinterest. Probably will need to bust out the Erin Condren and begin to make lists of all of the stuff that I want to make sure I do with my class next year.

It's always amusing how we can't wait for summer but we spend most of our summer finding new ideas or planning ;) Last summer I didn't do any because I wasn't changing grades...but this year since it is a grade I have not had since I was a TA in 2005 (eep!), I will probably spend a good portion of this summer planning and scoping out what I want to do and how I want to do it. We are supposed to take a day in August to collaborate with our grade level team but since I have so many days already booked for other stuff (PD and a new grant I'm part of), I'm not sure how I'm going to fit that in before school also. Oh well. Not going to worry about that now....I'm just going to pin my heart out, read some books, relax and work on my grad stuff.

No need to rush or worry. It'll all come together eventually.